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AN EPIPHANY: FEAR AND AWE, ALWAYS JOY
This is the Epiphany - an overwhelming joy at the encounter of Emmanuel, “God among us,” even in the midst of challenges such as fear.
CONNECTION FROM DISCONNECTION
What a wonderful paradox – that God can create connection from disconnection and life from death.
BEING PERFECT IS OVERRATED
Even as I face my perfectionism and stumble at times, God will not stop calling for me.
THOSE WHO LIE IN UNMARKED GRAVES
Our faith tells us that God knows each one of us, wholly and personally.
BEING CATHOLIC IS WEIRD SOMETIMES
To be like Jesus and to call myself his own is a tall order.
WAIT, WHO IS THIS?
Either way, God doesn’t come back with the clear-cut answer I’m looking for.
COMING TO KNOW GRACE
In Mary we come to know that maybe Grace has always been there, actively present, just like Jesus, here with us.
A FAMILY, HOLY AND HUMAN
Jesus, Mary and Joseph were holy, but holy and perfect are not the same.
REMAINING STEADFAST
God is steadfast in His love and faith in us even and especially when we are not.
HOW TO HAVE SUPERPOWER VISION
Our noisy world easily distracts us from hearing the Spirit.
GOD-WITH-US IN THE DARKNESS
Surely darkness and fellowship with God can occupy the same space.
THE RIGHT DIRECTION
All that swirls around me, all “concerns the Word of life” that is continually made visible by God with us.
WHAT IF I SAY THE WRONG THING?
In moments when worries return, I am reminded that I come from God’s belovedness and that there is nothing I could say that could take that away.
WHAT CHRISTMAS IS THIS?
Perhaps we doubt, despair, are afraid, or don’t understand. That's okay. If that’s where we are, then that's where our loving God comes to be with us.
DEAR SANTA, TAKE ME WITH YOU
The most important visitor we await doesn’t just want to sneak into our homes for a moment, but to come and live in our hearts.
WHAT AM I TO BE?
Let me trust in You and leave my worries behind to fully experience the joy of Jesus’ birth with an open heart.
BE QUICK, BUT DON’T HURRY
This Advent, I am hastening—not hurrying—upward to a closer relationship with Christ. With Him guiding my path, joyous victory is secured.
SIGNS
When we share honestly with the Lord, our doubts can be transformed and we can grow in humble acceptance.
FACE-TIME
Even though I might not know how to exactly help and struggle with finding the right words I know I must persist.
THOSE WHO FOLLOW YOU, LORD, WILL HAVE THE LIGHT OF LIFE
Knowing the peace that following the Lord can bring during good times and difficult times is my prayer for them today.
BECOME ALL FLAME
May we remain patient with our struggles, offering them to God, so that like a log into a fire, we too may be transformed into light and love.
WAITING FOR CLARITY
Though there's uncertainty and “blindness” about what the future holds, in the liminal spaces I try to recall past promises God has fulfilled.
FROM EMBRACING TO PRAISING
While she may have been filled with uncertainty for what was to come, her trust in the Lord filled her with gratitude, consolation, and joy.
LOVE AND FAITH
In embracing my vulnerabilities, I not only find acceptance but also walk hand in hand with our Father.
REMEMBER THE DANCE
Sometimes instead of receiving and savoring what God has offered me, I am trying to pass it onto the next person like a game of hot potato.
GOD’S GIFT
Each morning when we wake up, God offers the chance to live into the promises of our baptism in completely new ways.
TO JOYFULLY DECREASE
How can I find greater connection, community, and healing through “joyfully decreasing”?
GREAT, ANOTHER LEPER?
Jesus looks at leper after leper in the eyes and joins them, sees them, heals them.
BECAUSE GOD LOVES US FIRST
Fill our well with grace and reminders of how we are deeply loved, just as we are.
RATIONING LOVE
Jesus challenges them to look beyond the obvious solutions, to make space for love to enter in and multiply what is already there.
WHERE DO GOD LIVE?
To care for and educate the poor is to care for Jesus in the poor, the migrant, the homeless.
ALIGNMENT
Trust and faith were my companions to endure the walk of unfurling a deeper self - a call towards a life of Christ within me.
HOW MARY RESPONDS TO UNCERTAINTY
Because her trust in God is greater than a desire for certainty, she is open to receive all of God’s unimaginable gifts.
“YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO!”
They simply had a taste of what God promised for their lives. Maybe that’s enough.
UNEXPECTED EPIPHANY
We looked around at the unique decorations and offerings on the tombs: tangible outpourings of love, grief, and healing.
LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING
We’re each born into a family that God chose for us, and while conflicts are possible, so too is love and mercy.
BEARING WITNESS
When I look at my day, I ask what my actions testify about where I place my hope and trust.
SINGING A SONG OF PRAISE DURING A DIFFICULT TIME
We are not alone. May that be enough for us to sing a hymn of praise.
OPENING NEW DOORS OF GRACE
Trying something pretty different - with divine inspiration - opened the door to incredible, abundant grace.
“AND THE WORLD TURNED UPSIDE DOWN.”
Mary gives me a model of prayer, rooted in the past but open to the future.
LET ME HEAR YOUR VOICE
Perhaps as much as I want to hear the Lord’s voice, He longs to hear mine.
IS IT YOU WHO WILL BUILD A HOUSE FOR ME?
This year, these four walls (and the people who dwell in them) are the only manger I have for the Holy Family.
FINDING GRATITUDE
May we discover the opportunities each day to reflect and find past and present moments to be grateful for and live in gratitude.
SURE, MAYBE… BUT I HAVE A FEW QUESTIONS.
Jesus has called me, by name, to do great things, if I trust enough to say ‘yes’.
“ASSEMBLE!”
The truly heroic comes when he can see the worth in his own brokenness, and to rejoice in confirming the worth he suspected in another all along.
IN SEARCH OF A CHRISTMAS MIRACLE
In our quest to look for “the one who is to come,” let’s open our hearts to God’s presence who has been with us from the very beginning, in joy and even in suffering.
“YES, AND” OR “YES, BUT”
The further we push God away, the more adrift we feel, and the harder it can be to realign ourselves.
A ROAD LESS TRAVELED
I am called to choose hope, even if the immediate consequences scare me, for soon He will be near.
I sit in awe of all the ways in which people and moments in my life, both easy and difficult, have made a straighter way for the Lord to enter my heart.
THE FEAST DAY OF GUADALUPE
Mary’s role, as the God bearer, is to bring her son to us and to bring us to her son – through her love, through the church and through other people.
UNDERSTANDING THE LESSONS OF THE LORD
God’s message encourages us to let go of any expectations and to place ourselves in His grace.
POINTING AT JESUS
Help me to know who I am and to live with my words and deeds pointing toward You.
REST
I am learning to give myself grace each day and practice the sacrament of non-doing, emptying myself in God’s presence to strengthen me.
MAKING SPACE FOR POSSIBILITY
It is the openness to deepening trust and ultimately more joy that makes all the difference.
UNASHAMED
Sometimes wrestling fear is as futile as wrangling a toddler into fancy clothes for a picture. What if we stopped allowing that fear to control us?
TO REJOICE WITH GLADNESS
During the Christmas season, we wait in joyful anticipation for Jesus’ coming.
HOW DID I DO IT?
Even when I didn’t recognize it, God stood by my side being anything from a shadow to a bright light whenever I needed it even when I didn’t know I needed it.
FAITH OVER FEAR
When my prayers are less desperate lamentations, and more listening, God’s voice is that much clearer: I love you. I trust you. Please trust Me.
I HELD YOU
Today, for just one moment, I had the privilege of holding another family, and allowing them to hold me and my family.
SURPRISED BY JOY
Joy is something that sneaks up on us. It surprises us, often through gratitude for ordinary blessings.
THROUGH THE VEIL
Let us turn our eyes to Jesus to allow ourselves simply be with Jesus and savor in the hope that Christ brings.
WAY MAKER
What if, instead of preparing for the things of Christmas, we slowed down a bit and took time to prepare our hearts?
LIFE RING OF TRANSFORMATION
God of transformation, may we heed Mary’s example to be open to your dream for us, thus making You become more alive in this world.
GRACE THROUGH SURRENDER
What lenses need to be removed in order for me to see Your love and grace?
FAITHFUL FLOCK
The particular joy of finding that lost sheep becomes all the more beautiful because there is a flock to rejoin!
THE NEW ROARING 20s
Just like Mary, we all have moments when we imagine a future full of despair in spite of all the incredible things that await us.
TO WELCOME AND BE WELCOMED AS CHRIST
We are preoccupied with Christmas things, but are we just as preoccupied with why Christ came?
WAITING AND WAILING FOR WAFFLES
Advent isn’t only about waiting for a savior who’s already been born; it’s our anticipation of the world that is to come.
WELCOMING HUMILITY
In what ways can humility be a teaching guide for me as I dive deeper into Advent?
FOUNDED IN CHRIST
I was delightfully reminded that despite the many emotions and longings jostling around on the surface of my heart, there is a deeper sense of hope and trust that anchors me in Christ.
LIMINAL SPACE
In the vesper of my tears, God embraces me with a stream of compassion that bonds and holds me tenderly as I learn how to breathe under the deep and grieve with hope.
WAY OF LIFE
What does being childlike look like for you? What way of life during Advent will enable your buds to blossom?
HUMBLE TRUST
We can let go of our preoccupation with whether we are worthy or unworthy of being loved and we can simply continue with, “Only say the word …”
UNEXPECTED COMING
Advent invites us to pause in silence to understand a presence, a glimpse of God’s love that consoles us amidst the troubles of the world.
THE OATH TO ABRAHAM
This advent I'm worrying less about being holy and righteous and more about letting Him love me and help me to feel worthy of it.
SOUL FRIENDS
Being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person, they are almost indistinguishable.
FOOLISH TRUST
The challenge is to trust, not in hopes of personal gain and greatness, but rather to trust because God has already lavishly given us so much.
OFFERING MY SHAME WITH ARMS WIDE OPEN
As we near closer to Christmas, I feel like I am experiencing a rebirth along with Jesus' birth.
THE BIRTH OF CHRIST: JESUS AND OURSELVES
In this last week of Advent, may we open ourselves up to God’s invitations to be more fully born and say yes to him.
JESUS IN CHOCOLATE
Jesus wants to go where we will find him, to encounter us in our own place and time.
LOOK AND SEE THE FACE OF LOVE
Our capacity to receive his mercy is contingent only on our own willingness to turn and embrace it.
STEPPING BEYOND BIAS
Where have I turned a biased eye or allowed others to, for the sake of getting along and missing the opportunity to see more?
FIX MY EYES
How are we called to leave behind the hustle and bustle of the holidays and fix our gaze on the feast awaiting us in heaven?
CHOOSING TO DELIGHT
I admit I am very afraid; yet, I am challenged to delight in God’s unfailing love for me.
THERE HAS NEVER BEEN A MOMENT YOU WERE FORGOTTEN
I’m human, but the saving Grace is this: God is God. He will always find me wherever I may find myself.
THE LOST SHEEP
It seems silly for the shepherd to leave the flock behind to go out and find one sheep that strayed away, one lamb in peril.
I LOVE YOU, TOO
Lord, help my actions clear the way for Your grace. Open my eyes to see You in every event and person this Advent season.
BECOMING MORE IMMACULATELY ME
What I can do to imitate Mary’s example is to be as open as possible to saying “yes” to the invitations God offers me.
RETURNING TO OUR ROOTS
This could be a time to reconnect to the Middle East and our brothers and sisters in faith, remembering that we are all awaiting salvation.
REMNANTS OF HOPE
When I look around, I see the remnants of destruction, but I also see the remains of hope.
ENOUGH
I realize at the heart of the matter that my disquietude about scarcity stems from my neediness.
IT'S COMPLICATED
Simplicity didn’t feel exciting, and I realized excitement had become my default metric for happiness.
UNDER OUR OWN ROOF
“If you want to bring happiness to the whole world, go home and love your family.” – St. Teresa of Calcutta
TRUSTING GOD'S PROMISE
Mary's gentle, encouraging, and understanding gaze steadies me. She invites me to trust in God’s promise.
READY MY HEART
The One whom I seek is waiting for me, but He can’t come to me, and I am unable
to fully receive Him until the day my heart desires nothing else but Him.
MARY'S SONG
I experienced a great desire to let go of my fears and let myself surrender to God.
LOOKING AT LOVE
I resisted because of the cross; because it means that I must learn to love this way.
MY SURRENDER
Mary surrenders, perhaps not understanding completely what the “plan” is, but with faith that God will be with her.
LISTENING TO THE ANGELS IN OUR LIVES
Can I open my ears to hear the songs from the angels in my life?
OPENING THE HEART TO SURPRISE
God amazingly breaks through our limited views and understanding, and creates a new, more expansive reality.
FEAR NOT
When we walk in genuine love, we create more "monasteries" in this world. We create living sacred spaces in our relationships.
LEARNING TO REST
I don’t know how, but learning to couple my eyes and heart with Jesus’ gives rest.
WAITING FOR GOD
Our Lady of Guadalupe is an image of the kind of joyful anticipation we do in Advent. The child we await is like the kingdom of God – already, and not yet.
EFFORTLESS MEMORIES
God takes my little life with its moments and days and pieces, brings them to the altar, and makes them whole again.
OPEN TO GRACE
I'm making an earnest effort to wait and listen to what God has to reveal when we look back at the situation together.
WAITING IN STILLNESS
Lord Jesus, help me to wait with patience in stillness and see the sacrament of the present moment.
HEALING THROUGH PRAYER
Instead of focusing on the pain, I’ve developed a habit to pray daily, to have conversations with Him. It gives me peace knowing God is there.
AN ADVENT PILGRIM PRAYER
Awaken in me, a willingness to pause and breathe, to pause and be, to pause and receive.
INTO PEACE
“The tender mercy of our God … will visit us … to guide our feet into the way of peace." – Lk 1: 78-79
For many of us, Christmas Eve is often full of many activities: last minute shopping, cooking, traveling, gift-wrapping, etc.
NO RETURNS
“Lift up your heads and see; your redemption is near at hand.” Lk. 21:28
God's love is gratuitous: love that cannot be earned, deserved, or ever fully reciprocated.
TRANSFORMATION
“My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord...” – Lk. 1:46
How has God's love transformed your life?
RICH ENCOUNTERS
“Arise, my beloved, my dove, my beautiful one, and come!” – Sg. 2:10
Would I, as John, leap for joy at being in the presence of Christ?
FEMININE GENIUS
“Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.” Lk. 1:38
During this Advent season, I feel drawn to Mary and her feminine genius.
FIERCE LOVING
“Do not be afraid, because your prayer has been heard… You will have joy and gladness.” Lk 1:13-14
What does it feel like when I imagine a God who loves me so much that He is willing to do anything to bring me greater life?
READY MY HEART
Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall name him Emmanuel, which means “God is with us.” When Joseph awoke, he did as the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took his wife into his home. - Mt. 1:23-24
Will I rely on myself or am I going to take that risk in being led to be fully human? Will I trust the unfolding of God’s dreams for me?
IRREGULAR ORDER, CHAOTIC GRACE
“Justice shall flourish in time, and fullness of peace for ever” – Psalm 72:7
I am in awed at the slow and steady work of God! Two aspects of Matthew’s compilation of the genealogy of Jesus in today’s Gospel amaze me ...
CONTENT TO REJOICE
“John was a burning and shining lamp, and for a while you were content to rejoice in his light” – Jn. 5:34
I found my attention drawn not to either pole, but square in the middle: on the Incarnation and all its seeming contradictions.
OPENNESS
"What did you go out to the desert to see?" Lk. 7:24
What did you go out to the desert to see? Or in other words - what am I looking for?
REACHING OUT INTO THE DARKNESS
“Are you the one who is to come, or should we look for another?” Luke 7:20
How often do our convictions play tricks on us? That is: how often do we doubt something that we were once absolutely certain about?
SHOWING UP
"There was a man who had two sons. He went to the first and said, “Son, go and work today in the vineyard'. “I will not” the son answered, but later he changed his mind and went.” - Mt. 21:28-29
There are the days I call in sick to God ... the spiritual journey is indeed blue collar work.
OUR LADY OF THE POOR
"Blessed are you, daughter, by the Most High God, above all the women on earth…" - Jdt. 13:18
Today we celebrate one of the holiest days of the year for all of the Americas. The feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe is a story of how God acted in a people’s history to bring light in a time of great darkness.
TRUST IN THE SLOW WORK OF GOD
“Are you the one who is to come, or should we look for another?” – Mt. 11:3
Visiting my family this past Thanksgiving showed me two contrasting attitudes of waiting ...
SEEING GOD's FACE
“Lord, let us see your face and we shall be saved.” – Ps. 80:4
I often wonder what it would be like to finally see God face to face. Is that too audacious of me? Would I dare to look directly at my Lord, or would I cower and say as St. Peter, “Leave me Lord for I am a sinful man.”
¡ESCUCHAME!
“If you would hearken to my commandments…” – Is. 48:18
Today’s readings remind me of my “expressive” friends. They talk with fervor, gesticulating and fluctuating their voices, eager to get their message from their brains into the world.
TRUSTING THE GIFT OF THE UNEXPECTED
“Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.” - Luke 1:38
As we celebrate the Feast of the Immaculate Conception today, I find myself constantly in awe of Mary.
FROM HATERS TO LOVERS
"For my yoke is easy, and my burden light.” – Mt. 11:28-30
He reminds us that He makes a new way... more accessible. An easier yoke. A lighter burden. To get what we truly want. A deeper relationship with God. And this new way was called Jesus.
INEXHAUSTIBLE MERCY
“It is not the will of your heavenly Father that one of these little ones be lost.” – Mt. 18:14
This Advent I am grateful for the Extraordinary Jubilee Year of Mercy the Pope declared last year. I am invited this year to focus on what I have learned about mercy and put it in practice.
FORGIVENESS
"Your sins are forgiven." - Lk. 5:20
I have often said, "I forgive you," but even as I said these words my heart remained angry or resentful.
SOMETHING HARDLY NOTICEABLE
"A shoot shall sprout from the stump of Jesse, and from his roots a bud shall blossom. The spirit of the LORD shall rest upon him." - Isaiah 11:1-2
Any growth in life begins small. A seed blossoms into a tree. A fetus the size of a pea becomes a child. A conversation of heart begins with the realization that change is needed. Our salvation comes from something small, tender, and vulnerable, something hardly noticeable. God, who is the Creator of the Universe, comes to us in smallness, weakness, and hiddenness.
FRIENDS IN THE LORD
“Without cost you have received; without cost you are to give.” – Mt. 10:8
Francis Xavier is most known for his missionary work in Asia. He lived the Jesuit spirit of, “Go forth and set the world on fire.”
LET IT BE DONE
“Do you believe that I can do this?” – Mt. 9:28
For me, the key question of faith is, “Do I believe that God loves me?” Wrestling with this query makes faith more personal. It risks relationship. It elicits both suspicion and trust.
TURN IT OFF
“The rain fell, the floods came, and the winds blew and buffeted the house. But it did not collapse; it had been set solidly on rock.” –Mt. 7:25
For those of us who have spent our childhood (or much of life) in Southern California, the majestic colors of fall leaves are nothing more than photos on a screensaver.
DRAWN TOWARD GREATER LIFE
“Come after me, and I will make you fishers of men.” – Mt 4:19
The call of Andrew and the first disciples is at once inspiring and daunting to me. How can they follow someone they hardly knew, in such a decisive and definitive way?
CHILDLIKE SPIRIT
"I give you praise, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, for although you have hidden these things from the wise and learned you have revealed them to the childlike." - Lk. 10:21
Over the past two weekends, it has been a joy for me to be in the midst of many children ... Their joie de vivre, sense of enjoyment, is contagious. Their way of knowing is infectious.
ONLY SAY THE WORD
“Lord, I am not worthy to have you enter under my roof; only say the word and my servant will be healed.” – Mt 8:8
The miracle in today’s Gospel is unusual for two reasons. The healing took place without Jesus being physically present. The servant did not even have to hear Jesus speak the word. It was enough for Jesus to say the word.
WAKE UP!
“Now is the moment for you to wake from sleep.” – Rom 13:11
Advent snuck up again. As we’re barely digesting our Thanksgiving meals, running after Black Friday deals, traveling back from visiting friends and relatives, Advent comes. Advent is meant to be a time of preparation for Christmas. Yet, for many of us, it’s a not exactly a time to prepare in a way that enables Christ to be born more deeply in our lives.
BEING CLAIMED AS GOD’S BELOVED
In the midst of all the learning, unknowns, worries, and excitement, Jesus invites me to claim my identity in God.